Monday, May 26, 2008

Chinese

Our neighbor had a visitor from China. I'm not sure how to spell her name, but her name is Jo-Lin. She showed Ian, with sidewalk chalk in the driveway, how to write "Hello, Jo-Lin". She said "Hello" in Chinese is actually "You good".


This is how you would write "Ian". There are over 5,000 symbols that represent syllables in Chinese. She explained the way his name is written is actually the symbol that represents the sound "e" and the symbol that represents the sound "n".


Here, she showed the slightest difference in the sign makes the sign mean something entirely different. The sign on the left means "loyalty", and the sign on the right, she said, means something to do with the earth, the ground. She was unsure of the English translation. Just the slight extension of the top vertical line makes a great difference. Jo-Lin showed us how important it is to be precise when writing the symbols.



She told Ian he is very lucky - children in China go to school from 7 in the morning until 4 in the afternoon, and then there are after school study programs until 9 at night. What long days!

Michael said...
There are no characters to represent "Michael," only the sounds "My" and "Ko." That is how I arrived at "Unko - Miko" as an approximation of Ian's pronunciation - it was a nod to the lack of direct Chinese translation.

Serena said... Son of a gun. I had no idea. I found the entire conversation with Jo-Lin riveting. She spent a great deal of time speaking with us, repeating some of the things we said and asking many questions. When she returns to China, her husband is going to Australia for a period of time. She plans to take what she has learned here back to him, and to speak only English in their home until he leaves so he may learn as much as possible. The thought occurred to me that American English isn't always the best example to follow. :)

Michael said...
>children in China go to school from 7 in the morning until 4 in the afternoon, and then there are after school study programs until 9 at night...

That's why they kick our fat American asses in math and science.

Serena said... You betcha! And we have the nerve to complain about it - from our lazee-boys, of course.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Assistant Chef

Memorial Day Weekend at 'Uncle' Hope's house:

Harry was teaching Ian how to use the grill. The advantage, of course, of being the grill master is you can taste all the food first!



Austin wanted to learn, too:


Getting it off the grill and ready to serve:

After the party, Ian wanted to stop and take carnations to Abuela. I hope he isn't feeling guilty - he never wanted to visit with her when she was alive...


Saturday, May 24, 2008

Playing with Mommy's Camera

He wanted to take a picture of himself - turned out pretty good!


Studying:

Friday, May 23, 2008

Biking

I've braved the elements (mostly cold and wind) and biked to work a number of times over the past month.

My hands are ridiculously chapped, but I've lost 8 pounds.

Life is good!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Widgets

So I stayed up WAY too late last night checking out widgets for my blog. (Now there's a sentence that wouldn't have been constructed 20 years ago...)

Google has a ton of widgets, over 3,000! I was really impressed with neoworx.net, though. They have some really cool counters, one of which I am now using. It has an option to exclude my own visits from the counter, so I get a more accurate idea of how many visitors I actually have. They have a two week free trial period, and after that, the counter reverts to the original free version.

I also posted the Einstein Quote of the Day at the bottom of my blog. Enjoy!

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

I survived Survey Calculus I.

73 on the final, overall B- average. I'll take it.

I'm going to work on it over the summer, go over the lessons again. Now that I have the remainder of the course materials I should have had from day one, it should be a bit easier. At least I hope so. I want to get a handle on it before I hit Survey Calculus II!

Got an A in Business Law. Still waiting (impatiently) for my final grades in Microeconomics and Statistics. Statistics was fun... I'd take another class like that in a New York minute if I could!

Sunday, May 18, 2008

The end is near...

Well, this semester is almost over. I have a Nutrition class to take over the summer and four more classes to take in the fall, and then I will have (finally!) achieved my Associates in Business Administration. One of my friends told me, "I have one of those and it didn't help me a bit!", so I am not stopping here.

I am looking into Jones International University, University of Phoenix or Western Governors University to further my education with a Bachelors in Finance. All are regionally accredited, which I understand is very important and even necessary if I am going to move on to obtain a Masters. If anyone has any advice, or even knows of another institution I should look into, please feel free to comment! I am a member of phi theta kappa, so if anyone knows of an institution that offers a discount in tuition for that, I am all ears.

lbawden said...
It's awesome you're going to continue your schooling! I know it's a tough decision with considerations of time and money. I made that decision when my kids were little and though it was a sacrifice, it was worth it.

I happen to work for one of the universities you mentioned, and am somewhat familiar with each of them. They're all good, quality programs, so looks like you've done a good job of narrowing it down. I would suggest a little further investigation into each to see what will be the best fit for you. If you prefer a classroom environment, Jones may work better for you, UofP has both online and physical campuses. If you prefer online plus a more flexible schedule and you're an independent learner, you may like WGU. All 3 options accept transfer credits and offer financial aid assistance, but WGU has an edge on the tuition, as it is non-profit and tends to have tuition that can sometimes be even half of what for-profit institutions offer for comparable programs.

If you're looking to take a few classes, Jones or UofP may be the better choice. WGU only offers full degree programs.

One last item, WGU starts new students at the beginning of every month (you don't have to wait for a new quarter/semester). Also, their semesters are longer--6 months and they charge a flat rate tuition per term no matter how much of your program you complete. So if you can get more done in a term, it costs you less and you can graduate faster.

I hope this helps, best of luck!
Lori

Serena said...
It does - Thank you so much!

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Today in Baseball History

May 17, 1939 - The first baseball game ever televised — Princeton against Columbia at Baker Field, Columbia's home field — is seen by a handful of viewers via W2XBS in New York City. Bill Stern announces Princeton's 2-1, ten inning win. Reviewing the game the next day, the New York Times sniffs, "it is difficult to see how this sort of thing can catch the public fancy."

- taken from www.todayinbaseballhistory.com

Friday, May 16, 2008

Scroll down...

(I tried to catch up.) New posts back to March 14th!

Saturday, May 10, 2008

I just love my Uncle Gene

Here he is, demonstrating to Ian the proper technique to get every last bit of ice cream from the dish:
Life is short - Eat Dessert First!

The Families

The family of the groom:
The family of the bride:

The couple with the grandchildren:
and The King and I:

Dad Got Married!

You couldn't have asked for a nicer day. It was sunny and clear, temps in the high 60s, which just inspired a joyous feeling in everyone after such a long, cold winter.

Dad and Lani decided to walk down the aisle together.

And here is 'Calvin', wanting to know when we're going to dig in...


Here are Dad and Lani with Dad's siblings, Marlene, Gene and Dennie:


New cousins, Ethan and Ian:



My new sister, Cindee, and her daughter, Justine. The funny thing about this is that I have known Cindee for years! We used to work together at a law firm in Buffalo from 2001 to 2003.



I wish Dad and Lani many, many happy years together. It looks like they are already off to a great start!

Saturday, May 03, 2008

I hate Verizon.

I took this past week off as vacation to catch up on my course work. I have been spending so much time on Calculus and Statistics that I have fallen severely behind in Microeconomics and Law. My biggest goal was to complete the last four chapters in my Microeconomics course and to get my Law paper done. I also planned to take my new bicycle out every afternoon to practice riding and build up my strength. Verizon had other plans.

Monday morning, 7:00 a.m., I find my Internet connection speed is so slow it took 7 to 11 minutes to load a page. I spent from 7:30 to 12:30 pm on and off the phone with various non-English-speaking Verizon employees getting the connection up, only to have it go down again. At 12:30, it came up for the afternoon, and then at 9:10 p.m., it went down completely, and I spent from 9:15 to 11:30 p.m. on the phone with Verizon again. They blamed my computer, the number of processes the computer is running, the ethernet cable (which they had supplied), the setting in the modem (which they repeatedly changed and finally 'bridged' with my router), my telephone line that is inside my home, and my router itself.

They asked how long I had been having problems with my service. I told them - approximately a year and a half. As a matter of fact, when my brother came to visit from Seattle about in June of 2006 and used my Internet service, he said, "Boy, your Verizon service really sucks." And I said, yes, yes it does. They finally, after over a year of connection issues, decided to send a technician.

I asked when the technician would be arriving. I was assured one would be at my home within the next 24 to 48 hours. No kidding.

So Monday, I spent most of the day on the phone, getting nothing done.

Tuesday morning at about 9 I received an automated call that informed me a technician would be at my home the next day between 8 a.m. and 7 p.m. That certainly narrows it down, doesn't it? There was no way to speak to an actual person on this call, so I pressed the appropriate number to okay the appointment, hung up, and called Verizon back. I asked for someone in Customer Service. I actually was able to speak to an English-speaking customer service representative, and she was unable to help me. I had to speak to the DSL Department (which, by the way, is in another non-English-speaking location). She connected me, and stayed on the line with me trying to explain to the non-English-speaking person that I was on the line with her, and that I needed a narrower window for my appointment with the technician.

Good luck with that one. I was finally assured that although they could 'request' a more specific time, it could not be arranged. I asked to be transferred to their billing department, who is the only department who could tell me when my contract expires with them so I can move on to another ISP provider.

Two hours later, I received another call from Verizon. This person was actually able to narrow the window of time from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. on Wednesday for my appointment with the technician.

So Tuesday, I had no connection, could not view the lectures that are online, and got nothing done.

Wednesday morning, at about 10:30 a.m., I noticed the Verizon truck sitting outside my house. He did something in the back of his truck, got back into his truck, and started it up. I went running out there to catch him. He said everything was fine. I asked him, 'Then why don't I have an Internet connection?" He said he would take a look. He shut off the truck and came in, and said, "Oh. They told me you were on the right." (I am actually in the apartment on the left.) He ended up re-wiring my place, gave me a dedicated DSL line, made sure my connection was working, told me that if I was having any problems again, to call, and he would come right back, and he left.

Ten minutes later, I have no internect connection. I called Verizon and asked them to send the technician back. That's impossible, they said. The ticket is closed. So re-open it, I said. No, that is impossible. We could send a technician back, it would be 24 to 48 hours before they would arrive. They would not send the technician back, however, because my line was working fine, so that obviously is not the problem.

I was on the telephone with this non-English-speaking person for a few hours, at which time it was ascertained that it (of course) is not Verizon's problem, it is my network card. How do we fix that? It was recommended that I call a service like Geek Squad or someone like that to have it repaired. By this time, it is 10:00 p.m.

I called Rescue.com. They would have a technician contact me at 8:30 Thursday morning. Here it was, Wednesday, and I got nothing done.

At 9:30 a.m., I received the call, and actually got to speak to someone whose native language is English, which made up for his being an hour late. He ran numerous diagnostic tests and ascertained that it was indeed a problem with my network card, and it would have to be replaced. In the meantime, he got me up and running with my laptop. It cost me $148, and the desktop was still useless.

At 10:30 a.m., I pulled out the Verizon telephone book and called Circuit City and CompUSA. Every single telephone number that is listed in the book for the locations nearest to me was a non-working number. Verizon was very helpful there. I called the Cheektowaga Circuit City location, and they gave me the correct number for the Amherst location. CompUSA is no longer in business. They're still listed, though, just in case you want to know what their number used to be. Verizon can be very helpful that way.

Circuit City has a service called FireDog. I took my tower in, they replaced the network card ($30) for a service fee of $40. I brought the tower back home, plugged everything back in, and lo' and behold! No Internet connection!

So at 12:30 p.m. on Thursday, I am back on the phone with Verizon. They again blamed the router. I told them, this router is my third router. Why can't Verizon make my service work with any of three different routers? It's the router, ma'am. It's been working with this router, why isn't it working now with this router? There is a problem with your router, ma'am. You have to call the company that manufactured your router.

Linksys is the manufacturer of my router. I called them, they changed settings, and I was up and running again.

Until about 7:30 Thursday evening. Then - here's a shocker - no Internet connection! I called Verizon. Of course, it isn't their problem, they had me disconnect the router, and after numerous recyclings of the modem and computer, various changes in settings, more recycling, I was finally up and running again - but without my router. I had to call Linksys back to get my router working again. I plugged everything back in, called Linksys, and spent a couple hours on the phone with them. By midnight, I had an Internet connection again, but was too exhausted to do any coursework! All day Thursday - nothing done.

Friday morning, I get up, take Ian to the bus stop, come home, fire up the computer, and I have no Internet connection. I called Linksys this time. After two hours on the phone, it was determined that the modem was not set to work with the router. I would have to call Verizon and have them 'unbridge' the modem. Westell modems do not work well when they are bridged to work with routers, and there have been numerous problems with them. I wasn't surprised at all by this - the Westell modem was the modem that Verizon provided to me with my DSL service.

I called Verizon. They reset my modem, unbridged it, and made sure I had an Internet connection. I then plugged in my router, and had - you guessed it - no Internet connection. So I called Linksys back.

I spoke with someone who changed the settings in my router to again work with my modem. I had an Internet connection. I was happy. I could still work on my course work and watch the required lectures for three hours before I had to pick up Ian.

Guess again.

I launched my Internet Explorer from my laptop, which said I was 'connected' and my signal strength was 'Excellent', and it took 11 minutes to download the home page for the course work. I tried loading Google. Another 7 minutes. I called Verizon.

No, they assured me, it isn't their problem. I recycled the system again, had to disconnect the router, recycle the system, change settings, etc., etc., etc., and finally they got my connection up again, without the router.

So I called Linksys again. I spent until 5:30 p.m. on the phone with them, and the bottom line is, they can't tell me what is wrong, perhaps the router is defective, and they gave me an option to return the router for replacement. So here it is, Friday evening, and I've gotten nothing done. I have effectively spent my entire week of vacation on the phone.

This is the third router that I have tried over the past year and a half. I have a Netgear router that would not work with the Verizon Westell modem, a Microsoft Broadband Networking router that would not work with the Verizon Westell modem, and now the Linksys. I can only connect from my desktop, which is in my bedroom, and cannot use my laptop.

I decided to take the laptop to Barnes & Noble, who has free wi-fi, get a cup of tea, and do some coursework in their cafe. I tried to connect up to the Internet, but got an error message with a telephone number to call. I spent half an hour on the phone with their customer service rep, and was finally told that they were having a network issue, and they did not know when the internet would be available. I looked around, and everyone was tapping on keys and looking rather aggravated, so I knew it wasn't just me.

It sure felt like it, though.

My entire vacation - shot to hell. I am still facing the last four chapters of Microeconomics, and I have only been able to read one of the seven chapters I have left in order to prepare the paper for Law, I got no bike time in, I have a Statistics assignment due today that I haven't even started on, another Calculus assignment due on Monday, and the semester ends May 15th. If I cancel my Verizon service and go with one of their competitors, they want an early cancellation fee.

Haven't I paid enough?
Dolores said...
Kelly,
Here is what is wrong with Verizon.
Love, Dolores

This is India. It is where you call when you have a technical problem with your computer.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

I DID IT!!!

The price of gas is outrageous. It's just one more way the public gets poorer while the oil barons in the oval office get richer, and I am sick and tired of getting robbed at the gas pump. So, in an effort to save what little money I have, I decided a little exercise can't hurt. If I benefit the environment and my health, as well as save money at the same time, how can I possibly go wrong?

Yes, folks, I bought a bike, AND I LEARNED HOW TO RIDE IT!!!


I was VERY wobbly at first, and my turns were very wide, but I'll get the hang of it.


"Come ON, Mom! Let's GO!"

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Sometimes I hate it when Jeff is Right.

Say it with me, folks:


ANTI-differentiation!


The final is May 19th.


Pray for me. :D
JT said...
Just saying it feels as if the plague is approaching. When your solution takes a full sheet of paper... you know you are entering a "different" level of torture. :)

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

273 Days Left

"In an act of political retaliation for her husband's revealing that there was no truth to the president's claim in the State of the Union address that Saddam Hussein sought uranium in Niger, the identification of his wife, Valerie Plame, as a CIA agent, was leaked to the press. In doing so, a federal law was broken. Subsequently a conspiracy evolved within the White House involving Bush and his chief deputy Karl Rove, Dick Cheney and his chief deputy Scooter Libby, and the press secretary Scott McClellan to conceal the source of the leaks. Both the identification and conspiracy are high crimes, and as such, cause for impeachment.

- From Article I of House Resolution 1106: Articles of Impeachment against George Walker Bush, President of the United States, Introduced by Cynthia McKinney (D-GA) on December 8, 2006."

Taken from my Bad President calendar for April 22, 2008.

Monday, April 21, 2008

The Neighborhood is in Bloom!

Here it is, April 21st, temps near 80 here in Buffalo, and it's snowing like crazy in Seattle!
As Obiwan would say, "Bwaah-haaa-haaa!" (or something like that.) :D










Even my Christmas Cactus is confused!


A. Wise Art Journey said...
nice photos

Serena said...

Thank you! It was a beautiful day, and I actually had my camera with me!

Beautiful Days!

Yesterday, for the first time this season, I had my morning coffee outside on the patio. It was beautiful, and I enjoyed it so much I forgot to take pictures. Saturday, the temperature soared to 87, breaking the record. Today we are supposed to hit 70. I love it!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

No More Training Wheels

Here he comes!
And there he goes... Once he got the hang of it, all he wanted to do was ride up and down the street.


Now it's my turn...

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

My little blue belt

His blue belt fell off, but here he is, throwing the big kids around. :-)






Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Joking

My son is working on his sense of humor. Truth be told, he's stealing jokes from Webkinz.

I'm working on a new magic trick.

You are?

Yeah! Throw a pumpkin in the air, comes down squash!

I can't wait until he gets funnier. :D

Friday, March 21, 2008

Michael is Home!

All is well. I've got about a million questions to ask him...what are his limitations? Does he have to change his diet? What did the pathology reports on the kidney and mass have to say? How's the other kidney? and Most Importantly - how does he feel?

I think right now the most important thing for him is to let him rest - after all, who can rest in a hospital? I told Jeff I'll wait a week or two before I call him. Give the poor man a break. :D

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Michael

My brother had surgery yesterday - a nephrectomy. Here is a link to his blog for more details.

I didn't realize how anxious I was about the whole thing until Jeff called to let me know he was okay. And then I realized I had been subconsciously holding my breath the entire day.

Oh, I tried not to worry. I got up at 5 and thought, "Heck. It's only 2 am there. They're not even up yet." Got to work at 8 and thought, "Let's see. Surgery is at 7:30 HIS time, 10:30 mine, so there's no point in worrying yet." And at 10:30, "They just started. I'm not going to know anything for at least a couple hours." And at 11:30, "It's too soon to start worrying...I'll take my lunch at noon like normal." And at 1:30, "Hmm. It's been two hours, but if they had to take the whole kidney, it'll take longer, so there's no point in worrying yet." And at 2:30, "Jeez. I wonder why he didn't ask the doctor how long this stupid surgery would take." At 3:30, I left my desk to make a copy, jammed the copier, fixed it, came back to my desk and got Jeff's message. And promptly burst into tears.

God I'm glad that's over. Who, me? Worry?

Anyway, the good doctors removed the mass that was growing inside him along with his entire right kidney. They believe it was cancerous, and are running tests. Mike is doing well, and will be hospitalized for three to five days. Further bulletins as events warrant...

Friday, March 14, 2008

Hockey




For the first time in four years, we were able to attend a Sabres game. (The cost of the tickets is ridiculous, and I cannot afford to take us.) We received tickets to suite seats as a gift. It was a great game - Sabres won, and Ian was practically walking on the ceiling he was so happy. And it wore him out.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Conjunction Function

Soooo, I went to the Math Lab at ECC for another session with Kate the Math Goddess.

"What are we working on today?" she asks.

"Well. We have functions that are inside functions and outside functions combined, and the outside functions with the inside functions are multiplied by the first derivative of the inside function, BUT, if the inside function or the outside function is a product of two functions or a quotient of two functions, the product rule for functions or the quotient rule for functions has to be used before the outside and inside functions can be multiplied by the derivative of the inside function, AND if any of the functions are raised to a power, the power rule for functions has to be applied."

She didn't even blink! "Oh," says she, "You are differentiating composite functions."

Now why isn't as easy as she makes it sound?

JT said...
Memmmoorrrriiessss!

Serena said...
An Elvis tune!

Memories...pressed between the pages of my mind....Memories....sweetened thru the ages just like wine...

Nah. He couldn't have been thinking about Calculus. :D

Sunday, March 09, 2008

Colon Issues

Today I am prepping for my first colonoscopy, which takes place first thing 7 a.m. tomorrow. I think that's a great time slot for something like this - nothing worse will happen to me the rest of the day! And I'm making this entry before the meds kick in...

Anyway, Ian's grandfather called and mentioned he is having one tomorrow, and my neighbor called and asked me to get her mail because she is having one tomorrow, and two friends of mine just had theirs last week... I feel almost like I'm joining a club.

Further bulletins as events warrant.

Dolores said...
Hi Kelly, I have just been reading your blog. I am so glad everyone is or had a colonoscopy. I have a very dear friend she is 46 with three children and a husband, who is I hate to admit very very sick and in the hospital heavily sedated. She had her first colonoscopy in Aug 06, had surgery and found it metastasized to her liver and pelvic area.

Serena said...
I'm so sorry to hear that! As tests go, the prep is murder, but in the long run, the knowledge gained is worth it. Your friend and her family have some tough times ahead. I will keep them, and you, in my thoughts.